Easy talking...

Started by Scrumpy, November 20, 2024, 10:08:27 AM

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Scrumpy


I find it uncomfortable talking to those who are (experts) in many subjects..
.. and use long words..
I don't enjoy chatting with those who brag and want everyone to know what they have regarding property, cars etc...

Though I am a people's person I much prefer listening to those who are just down to earth..
There is nothing better than sitting on a bench chatting with a stranger..
After a while you feel that you have known them for years..

And what of those who tell you about all their illnesses and such a painful childbirth with labour lasting many days.. !! ... Pensioners have wonderful memories..
Don't ask me.. I know nuffink..

dextrous63

Now you mention it, I was a breached birth....

Scrumpy


Wh
Quote from: dextrous63 on November 20, 2024, 10:09:50 AMNow you mention it, I was a breached birth....
What bench are you sitting on..  ?
We can chat..
Don't ask me.. I know nuffink..

JBR

Quote from: Scrumpy on November 20, 2024, 10:08:27 AMThere is nothing better than sitting on a bench chatting with a stranger..
After a while you feel that you have known them for years..

Just you be careful about who you sit next to on a bench.  There will be those who convincingly tell you how much you both have in common.  Be very wary!
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klondike


Scrumpy

Quote from: JBR on November 20, 2024, 11:59:00 AMJust you be careful about who you sit next to on a bench.  There will be those who convincingly tell you how much you both have in common.  Be very wary!
I don't go around looking for benches so I can chat to someone..
I just think that you can meet some interesting people whilst sitting on a bench... 

I sat by a woman and her husband.. She was telling me that he was her second husband and that she wished she had remained a widow.. and the reasons why..
I felt sorry for the husband .. Sitting close by..
Very quietly I reminded her that he was sitting there and wasn't she concerned about the things she was saying about him..
She answered. 'Nah!! He's almost deaf.. He can't  hear a thing'..  :nooo:



Don't ask me.. I know nuffink..

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Mups

I'll sit on the bench and have a natter with you Scrumps. 
We could even have a sarnie and feed the ducks if it gets a bit warmer.  :smiley:

JBR

Quote from: Scrumpy on November 20, 2024, 05:54:11 PMI don't go around looking for benches so I can chat to someone..
I just think that you can meet some interesting people whilst sitting on a bench...

Well, I'm interesting.
You can sit on a bench and chat to me.  I'd be very happy to do that.
Though better not to tell Marge!
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Raven

#9
When walking Dageus I used to rest on seats/logs/rocks often and so many people stopped to chat. Dageus was like a people magnet. So were the Sheepdogs I had over the years, not often you see 4 being walked together.
I kind of miss that now.
This is my Clan of Sheepies at their biggest.



Diasi

Quote from: Raven on November 22, 2024, 10:18:36 AMWhen walking Dageus I used to rest on seats/logs/rocks often and so many people stopped to chat. Dageus was like a people magnet. So were the Sheepdogs I had over the years, not often you see 4 being walked together.
I kind of miss that now.
I know exactly how you feel, it's a year tomorrow since Lily died & I haven't had a walk round the area since.

I only leave the house when it's for a specific reason & then I often use the car, even to go the half mile to Morrisons.
Make every day count, each day is precious.
"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal".  (Cassandra)
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GrannyMac

#11
They're really special Raven.  I'm like Scrumpy, people talk to me at the bus stop, in the shopping centre etc. There is a walled garden in the local park, near the library.  It has lots of benches, some with memorial placques, and its a lovely place to sit and sometimes chat on a nice day. 
Its not how old you are, but how you are old. 💖

Scrumpy


Your picture is so beautiful Raven.. 


Quote from: Mups on November 20, 2024, 09:25:23 PMI'll sit on the bench and have a natter with you Scrumps. 
We could even have a sarnie and feed the ducks if it gets a bit warmer.  :smiley:
I'd sit with you Mups.. Do a bit of people watching..
Put the world to rights..
I'm a giggler .
Egg and cress sandwich for me..

I think I could sit with most on here.. I find people interesting.. 

JBR... I would be no threat to Marge..


Don't ask me.. I know nuffink..

Alex

I can't remember the last time I sat on a bench  :grin: I do find people talk to me in supermarkets and shops, usually in the queue ! . :grin:

JBR

Quote from: Scrumpy on November 22, 2024, 06:36:44 PMI think I could sit with most on here.. I find people interesting..

JBR... I would be no threat to Marge..



OK, but Marge would be a threat to you!  😮😨
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