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Title: Xmas alone again....but!
Post by: Flying Bomb on December 23, 2021, 05:23:29 AM
Once again I face Xmas alone. Wife died and no relations at all.
BUT a neighbor, who I know but a little, is having a big
Xmas family dinner etc. with her Sisters, grand children etc etc.

Normally in this village I'm lucky if one person invites me in before or after Xmas for a coffee and mince pie. Never on Xmas day.

But this lovely person has invited me, a stranger to all her family, to Xmas dinner with all her extended family.

How many, so called Christians, would do that?
Would you?


Title: Re: Xmas alone again....but!
Post by: Michael Rolls on December 23, 2021, 06:50:47 AM
Well, I don't really have the opportunity, but at least this year, unlike 2020, my s-i-l is on her way to stay with me over Christmas to the New Year. Geographically, she is now my nearest family member at 400 miles away in Hereford.
Mike
Title: Re: Xmas alone again....but!
Post by: Scrumpy on December 23, 2021, 07:53:33 AM

Would I do it.?  I would like to say 'Yes'.. But I am not sure..
Flying Bomb..Enjoy your Christmas day ..
Title: Re: Xmas alone again....but!
Post by: maddie malone on December 23, 2021, 08:09:16 AM
I hope everyone has a good Christmas but for me this year is the first without my husband who passed away in April .☹️
FB enjoy your meal x
Title: Re: Xmas alone again....but!
Post by: klondike on December 23, 2021, 08:32:15 AM
What a good neighbour. Enjoy your Chrismas FB.
Title: Re: Xmas alone again....but!
Post by: Michael Rolls on December 23, 2021, 09:05:00 AM
Quote from: maddie malone on December 23, 2021, 08:09:16 AM
I hope everyone has a good Christmas but for me this year is the first without my husband who passed away in April .☹️
FB enjoy your meal x
Maddie
You do have my sympathy - the first Christmas without Veronica, even though some family came up, was truly awful. In a way, last year was just as bad because for the first time in my then 83 years, I woke on Christmas day to an empty house, courtesy of covid
Mike
Title: Re: Xmas alone again....but!
Post by: Sheila on December 23, 2021, 09:06:32 AM
FB, enjoy your meal with your lovely neighbour and just in case you haven't thought - take some lovely chocolates, wine etc. 
Title: Re: Xmas alone again....but!
Post by: Alex on December 23, 2021, 11:34:58 AM
Good neighbours, what a kind thing to do.   Enjoy your day FB  :upvote:
Title: Re: Xmas alone again....but!
Post by: Diasi on December 23, 2021, 07:07:03 PM
Quote from: maddie malone on December 23, 2021, 08:09:16 AM
I hope everyone has a good Christmas but for me this year is the first without my husband who passed away in April .☹️
FB enjoy your meal x
Quote from: Michael Rolls on December 23, 2021, 09:05:00 AM
Maddie
You do have my sympathy - the first Christmas without Veronica, even though some family came up, was truly awful. In a way, last year was just as bad because for the first time in my then 83 years, I woke on Christmas day to an empty house, courtesy of covid
Mike

Both of you & Flying Bomb will be in my thoughts over Chistmas.

For me, Christmas & the New Year period will, forever more, always be a truly dreadful time as my wife came home from hospital on Christmas Eve 2020 so that she could die at home, which she did on New Year's Eve.
Title: Re: Xmas alone again....but!
Post by: Michael Rolls on December 23, 2021, 09:55:12 PM
Thank you, Phil. Like your dear wife, Veronica's final decline started over Christmas
Mike
Title: Re: Xmas alone again....but!
Post by: maddie malone on December 23, 2021, 10:29:05 PM
Phil I quite often think of how you are doing and I hope you are ok .my thoughts will be with you also over the Christmas . Take care. Xx
Title: Re: Xmas alone again....but!
Post by: Diasi on December 23, 2021, 11:46:46 PM
Quote from: Michael Rolls on December 23, 2021, 09:55:12 PM
Thank you, Phil. Like your dear wife, Veronica's final decline started over Christmas
Mike

Quote from: maddie malone on December 23, 2021, 10:29:05 PM
Phil I quite often think of how you are doing and I hope you are ok .my thoughts will be with you also over the Christmas . Take care. Xx

Thanks, I often think of both of you, & you & I went through the terrible journey at more or less the same time.

Yes, it's very difficult when there's a constant media countdown (come on folks, only 60 days left before Xmas etc) to the day.

Title: Re: Xmas alone again....but!
Post by: Scrumpy on December 24, 2021, 08:54:35 AM

My thoughts are with you all...
Title: Re: Xmas alone again....but!
Post by: Alex on December 24, 2021, 10:06:32 AM
It's only one day, soon be over.  There's sure to be a few of us on here over the weekend too  :upvote:
Title: Re: Xmas alone again....but!
Post by: zoony on December 24, 2021, 03:16:21 PM
ONE day? .. If only it was Alex, if only it was.
Title: Re: Xmas alone again....but!
Post by: Alex on December 24, 2021, 04:33:26 PM
The shops are full of it weeks before I know, but once Christmas Day is over we're nearer to getting back to normal is what I meant.
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Post by: Raven on December 24, 2021, 04:34:55 PM
Then comes the Easter Goodies hot on the Christmas Heels.  [2110]
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Post by: klondike on December 24, 2021, 06:30:18 PM
You forgot Valentine's day...
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Post by: Raven on December 24, 2021, 06:34:40 PM
Oops.  :embarrassed:
Title: Re: Xmas alone again....but!
Post by: Scrumpy on December 26, 2021, 09:06:54 AM

Flying Bomb... I hope you enjoyed your Christmas Day... I enjoyed mine..
Title: Re: Xmas alone again....but!
Post by: Flying Bomb on December 26, 2021, 12:47:17 PM
Quote from: Scrumpy on December 26, 2021, 09:06:54 AM
Flying Bomb... I hope you enjoyed your Christmas Day... I enjoyed mine..

Glad you enjoyed yours.
My lovely lady neighbor brought me a wonderful Xmas dinner.

Another lady, ​who I sometimes meet on my early village walks
and whom I know very little, knocked at the door with a present.

A book of  jokes.    I shall have to tell her another one of my own again.. She is a solicitor.....
"Did you hear about the Chinese lady who was a solicitor?
Her name was Sue Me. Her husband's name was, New Will."

Title: Re: Xmas alone again....but!
Post by: Scrumpy on December 26, 2021, 01:08:47 PM

Already they have brought a smile to your face.. and lifted your spirits..
Well done them...
Title: Re: Xmas alone again....but!
Post by: maddie malone on December 27, 2021, 10:00:34 AM
Quote from: Flying Bomb on December 26, 2021, 12:47:17 PM
Glad you enjoyed yours.
My lovely lady neighbor brought me a wonderful Xmas dinner.

Another lady, ​who I sometimes meet on my early village walks
and whom I know very little, knocked at the door with a present.

A book of  jokes.    I shall have to tell her another one of my own again.. She is a solicitor.....
"Did you hear about the Chinese lady who was a solicitor?
Her name was Sue Me. Her husband's name was, New Will."

Sounds like you got really nice neighbours there FB x
Title: Re: Xmas alone again....but!
Post by: Akbuk on December 29, 2021, 09:32:23 PM
Quote from: Flying Bomb on December 23, 2021, 05:23:29 AM
Once again I face Xmas alone. Wife died and no relations at all.
BUT a neighbor, who I know but a little, is having a big
Xmas family dinner etc. with her Sisters, grand children etc etc.

Normally in this village I'm lucky if one person invites me in before or after Xmas for a coffee and mince pie. Never on Xmas day.

But this lovely person has invited me, a stranger to all her family, to Xmas dinner with all her extended family.

How many, so called Christians, would do that?
Would you?


Read your post a bit late FB because from me you'd have got, "your place or mine"?
Title: Re: Xmas alone again....but!
Post by: zoony on December 30, 2021, 12:29:43 AM
FB..To answer your question and judging only from my own Christmas, not enough mate, not nearly enough. :grin:  Happy New flippin' Year anyroad. :smiley: